tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9065959.post113766749923982855..comments2023-10-01T15:21:16.985+03:00Comments on Soul, Heart, Mind & Body..: **S-A-K-E-E-N-A**sarahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00138660655259070845noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9065959.post-1138102968853762822006-01-24T14:42:00.000+03:002006-01-24T14:42:00.000+03:00Consider the following ten points to control the i...Consider the following ten points to control the instinct of dispute and maintain a happy marriage. <BR/><BR/>1\Fear Allah: It was the noble practice of Nabi (SAW) to conscientise the spouses about the fear for Allah before performing a Nikah by reciting the verses (Nisa v14, Ahzab v69, Aali-Imraan v101) from the Quraan. All the verses are common in the message of Taqwa (fear of Allah). The spouses will be first committed to Allah before being committed to their partner. There can be no doubt in the success of a marriage governed by the fear of Allah. <BR/><BR/>2\Never be angry at the same time: Anger is the root cause for all marital disputes. One Sahabi came to Rasulullah (SAW) and sought some advice. Rasulullah (SAW) replied, control your anger. The same advice was rendered three times. (Mishkaat pg.433; HM Saeed) <BR/><BR/>3\If one has to win an argument, let it be the other: Nabi (SAW) said: “Whoever discards an argument despite being correct shall earn a palace in the centre of Jannah. (Ibid pg.412) <BR/><BR/>4\Never shout at each other unless the house is on fire: Luqman (AS) while offering advice to his son said: ” and lower your voice for verily the most disliked voice is that of a donkey”. (Surah Luqman v19) <BR/><BR/>5\If you have to criticize, do it lovingly: Rasulullah (SAW) said, ‘A Mu’ min is a mirror for a Mu’min.’ (Abu Dawud vol.2 pg.325; Imdadiyah) Advise with dignity and silently. <BR/><BR/>6\Never bring up mistakes of the past: Nabi (SAW) said: “Whoever conceals the faults of others, Allah shall conceal his faults on the day of Qiyaamah.” (Mishkaat pg.429; HM Saeed) <BR/><BR/>7\Neglect the whole world rather than your marriage partner:Nabi (SAW) confirmed the advice of Salman to Abu-Darda [RA] for neglecting his wife. “Verily there is a right of your wife over you.” (Nasai Hadith2391) <BR/><BR/>8\Never sleep with an argument unsettled: Abu Bakr [RA] resolved his dispute with his wife over-feeding the guests before going to bed. (Bukhari Hadith 602) <BR/><BR/>9\At least, once everyday, express your gratitude to your partner: Nabi [sallallaahu alayhi wasallam] said, ‘Whoever does not show gratitude to the people has not shown gratitude to Allah.’ (Abu Dawud pg.662; Karachi) <BR/><BR/>10\When you have done something wrong, be ready to admit it and ask for forgiveness: Nabi [sallallaahu alayhi wasallam] said, ‘All the sons of Aadam commit error, and the best of those who err are those who seek forgiveness.’ (Tirmidhi Hadith 2499)sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00138660655259070845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9065959.post-1137745235923596072006-01-20T11:20:00.001+03:002006-01-20T11:20:00.001+03:00honour honor honour honor...honour honor honour honor...sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00138660655259070845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9065959.post-1137745220359281412006-01-20T11:20:00.000+03:002006-01-20T11:20:00.000+03:00IT WAS MY HONOUR BROTHER FAHD...AND THANX BROTHER ...IT WAS MY HONOUR BROTHER FAHD...<BR/>AND THANX BROTHER JAWAD...<BR/>AND BRO/SIS ANONYMOUS;<BR/>I LIVE UNDER THE SKY, IN FRONT OF THE ARABIAN GULF WATERS...sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00138660655259070845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9065959.post-1137736777432392842006-01-20T08:59:00.000+03:002006-01-20T08:59:00.000+03:00Thanks for dropping by to my blog. It was an houno...Thanks for dropping by to my blog. It was an hounor for me.Fahd Mirzahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14722451950835849728noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9065959.post-1137696435862717602006-01-19T21:47:00.000+03:002006-01-19T21:47:00.000+03:00Where do you live in Abu Dhabi? I've got fmaily th...Where do you live in Abu Dhabi? I've got fmaily there. I just got back from visiting them a couple of weeks ago.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9065959.post-1137692197011463212006-01-19T20:36:00.000+03:002006-01-19T20:36:00.000+03:00hmmm.. gud work.. keep it uphmmm.. gud work.. keep it upAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9065959.post-1137681541892120222006-01-19T17:39:00.000+03:002006-01-19T17:39:00.000+03:00"Among His signs is (the fact) that He has created..."Among His signs is (the fact) that He has created spouses for you from among yourselves so that you may console yourselves with them. He has planted love and mercy between you; in that are signs for people who reflect" (30:21)<BR/><BR/>This is a very important definition of the relationship between man and wife. They are expected to find tranquility in each other's company and by "love and mercy". Such a description comprises mutual care, consideration, respect and affection.<BR/>Faith: The love Muslim spouses have for each other is for the sake of Allah that is to gain His pleasure. It is from Allah that we claim our mutual rights (Quran 4:1) and it is to Allah that we are accountable for our behavior as husbands and wives.<BR/><BR/>It sustains: Love is not to consume but to sustain. Allah expresses His love for us by providing sustenance. To love in Islam is to sustain our loved one physically, emotionally, spiritually and intellectually, to the best of our ability (to sustain materially is the husbands duty, however if the wife wishes she can also contribute)<BR/><BR/>Accepts: To love someone is to accept them for who they are. It is selfishness to try and mould someone as we wish them to be. True love does not attempt to crush individuality or control personal differences, but is magnanimous and secure to accommodate differences.<BR/><BR/>Challenges: Love challenges us to be all we can, it encourages us to tap into our talents and takes pride in our achievements. To enable our loved one to realize their potential is the most rewarding experience.<BR/><BR/>Merciful: Mercy compels us to love and love compels us to have mercy. In the Islamic context the two are synonymous. The attribute Allah chose to be the supreme for Himself is that He is the most Merciful. This attribute of Rehman (the Merciful) is mentioned 170 times in the Quran, bringing home the significance for believers to be merciful. Mercy in practical application means to have and show compassion and to be charitable.<BR/><BR/>Forgiving: Love is never too proud to seek forgiveness or too stingy to forgive. It is willing to let go of hurt and letdowns. Forgiveness allows us the opportunity to improve and correct our selves.<BR/><BR/>Respect: To love is to respect and value the person their contributions and their opinions. Respect does not allow us to take for granted our loved ones or to ignore their input. How we interact with our spouses reflects whether we respect them or not.<BR/><BR/>Confidentiality: Trust is the most essential ingredient of love. When trust is betrayed and confidentiality compromised, love loses its soul.<BR/><BR/>Caring: Love fosters a deep fondness that dictates caring and sharing in all that we do. The needs of our loved ones take precedence over our own.<BR/><BR/>Kindness: The Seerah (biography) of our beloved Prophet is rich with examples of acts of kindness, he showed towards his family and particularly his wives. Even when his patience was tried, he was never unkind in word or deed. To love is to be kind.<BR/><BR/>Grows: Marital love is not static it grows and flourishes with each day of marital life. It requires work and commitment, and is nourished through faith when we are thankful and appreciative of Allah blessings.<BR/><BR/>Enhances: Love enhances our image and beautifies our world. It provides emotional security and physical well being.<BR/><BR/>Selflessness: Love gives unconditionally and protects dutifully.<BR/><BR/>Truthful: Love is honesty without cruelty and loyalty without compromise.sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00138660655259070845noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9065959.post-1137667866421117172006-01-19T13:51:00.000+03:002006-01-19T13:51:00.000+03:00SakeenaThis ain’t a love songThis is a live songWo...Sakeena<BR/>This ain’t a love song<BR/>This is a live song<BR/><BR/>Woman, u my equal, my wife<BR/>We be tight like<BR/>2 perfectly matching calligraphy lines<BR/><BR/>We don’t wanna build our house of earth, water and stone<BR/>But of wisdom, pure intentions, conversation<BR/>Compassionate action, with purity of heart <BR/>We might get somewhere, become light<BR/>Fast and burn like a candle, right<BR/>Intertwine, u give me peace of mind<BR/>I cloak u and u cloak me<BR/>Responsible I feel with honesty<BR/>Between us God has put affection and mercy<BR/>Praised be He who created u<BR/>Cuz all I see in u is beautiful<BR/><BR/>Woman, u my equal, my wife<BR/>We be tight like<BR/>2 perfectly matching calligraphy lines<BR/>What drew us together <BR/>Doesn’t conform to the laws of nature<BR/>It is written<BR/>There is only One opener for the lock of these things<BR/><BR/>Amor mío<BR/>Te adora como a la más bella estrella fugaz en el cielo<BR/>Y cuando me siento sólo, sé que tú me entiendes<BR/>Sé que me comprendes<BR/>Sueño apoyarme en tu sonrisa<BR/>Toma mi mano y ven de prisa<BR/>Siempre me imagino Viejo y arrugado<BR/>Mis hijos ya crecidos mis nietos a mi lado<BR/>Y la luz de luna a revelado<BR/>Que tu palpitar es por mi, que siempre a sido asi<BR/>He practicado que decir muchas veces<BR/>Y cuando Dios lo quiera estaremos frente a frente<BR/>Será el momento de embrujarte<BR/>Ojalá que en tus ojos me retrates<BR/>Que aceptes mi pasado, que mis locuras yo no pague<BR/>Yo te prometere mi vida<BR/>Aunque la muerte nos separe<BR/><BR/>Translation:<BR/>[My dearest<BR/>I adore you like the most beautiful shooting star in the sky<BR/>And when I feel alone I know that you understand me<BR/>I know that you comprehend me<BR/>I’m looking for comfort in your smile <BR/>Let’s hurry, follow me<BR/>‘Cuz I’ve always seen myself old and aged<BR/>My children grown up, grandchildren by my side<BR/>And the moonlight has revealed<BR/>That your heart beats for me<BR/>And it has always been like that<BR/>I’ve practised what to say many times<BR/>When God is willing<BR/>We’ll stand face to face<BR/>That will be the moment to put a spell on you<BR/>If only I could slide into your eyes<BR/>If only you would see through the past<BR/>If only I don’t have to pay for my peculiarities <BR/>I’ll dedicate my life to you<BR/>Even after death will separate us] <BR/><BR/>Woman, u my equal, my wife<BR/>We be tight like<BR/>2 perfectly matching calligraphy lines<BR/>What drew us together <BR/>Doesn’t conform to the laws of nature<BR/>It is written<BR/>There is only One opener for the lock of these things<BR/><BR/>Most definitely in our luv are signs of knowledge<BR/>Every dime I spend on u<BR/>Is worth more than what I spend on the poor<BR/>See patience is the best key to happiness<BR/>Continuous, satisfaction, pearls wanna be like u<BR/>Intertwine, u are my Sakeena<BR/>U protect me and I protect u<BR/>Scientifically we be deeper than Al-kindi <BR/>Between us God has put affection and mercy<BR/>This ain’t a luv song<BR/>This is a life song<BR/><BR/>We going 6 years strong<BR/>With no sign of REGRET<BR/>With each year we gain in force with ups and downs of course <BR/>Yeah my wife is my cousin <BR/>And thank God, Faizan my son was born without complications<BR/>Hina my love to you is unconditional <BR/>Not limited by typical Bollywood scenarios<BR/>Or by statistics when problems occur we leave<BR/>‘Cause I know t u´ll stay till I no longer will breathe<BR/>Or if I’m crippled, blinded or anything else<BR/>I know I can rely on u helping my every step<BR/>Love is not just limited to butterflies and sex<BR/>It’s to recognise and respect each others intellects<BR/>Lots of regrets many things we shouldn’t have said and done<BR/>But that’s just part of our journey and it’s just begun<BR/>Define beauty ‘cause one day looks will fade<BR/>But a beautiful mind still be young at an old age<BR/>And I know it’s hard me being away for so long<BR/>But I respect u so much for being so strong<BR/>I remember U being pregnant going to school<BR/>Cooking food taking care of my parents and the whole house<BR/>All in one something a man could never do no doubt <BR/>So I thank my mother for the day she brought us together<BR/>And I pray for our reunion in the afterlife forever<BR/><BR/>Woman, u my equal, my wife<BR/>We be tight like<BR/>2 perfectly matching calligraphy lines<BR/>What drew us together <BR/>Doesn’t conform to the laws of nature<BR/>It is written<BR/>There is only One opener for the lock of these things<BR/><BR/>http://www.outlandmoro.com/sarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00138660655259070845noreply@blogger.com