Have you ever been dreaming, then realized that you were dreaming?
At that moment, one is able to "control" the dream. To create the dream world.
Have you ever been awake, then realized that you were awake?
At that moment...
HAVE YOU EVER BEEN YOURSELF, AND DECIDED TO JUST CONTINUE ON BEING THAT?
AT THAT MOMENT, I GUARANTEE YOU WILL SUCCEEEEEED!